The Masters just wrapped up another year.  The music, ambiance and pure magical thrill that is brought to the game of golf each year consistently amazes me.  I had the opportunity to golf with a daughter and two sons this weekend as well.  The sun was shining, wind a bit brisk, and the greens ran fast.  It was a picture perfect day.  And the # 1 reason I enjoyed the day was because everyone was nice.  We are a very competitive family in all we do.  Yet on this day, on this course, we were cordial, respectful, yet still played to win.  Business competition can get nasty.  We can easily become so competitive that we become rude and obstinate. We can become poor sports, and that is no way to win!

 

So here are “FOUR” ways we can continue to be competitive yet keep the white hat firmly placed upon our head.

 

1) Enjoy Yourself.   When you feel happy you smile more and stress is lessened.  During competition we can become bogged down with the “win” and ignore the “ride to get there.” Relax and enjoy the ride!

2) Stay Calm. Even when you are facing stiff competition the more relaxed you are the stronger you seem to the competition.  Nothing ruffles you, you stay calm and collected and you don’t lose your cool.  Your competitor won’t like that one little bit.

3) Be Polite. You can be competitive and polite at the same time.  Remembering manners when the going gets heated can get you through tough times. We see reality shows daily that bombard us with people who love to display poor manners. You can be honest without being mean or impolite. You’ll feel better about yourself too!

4) Step Back.  A golfer will step back to gauge how she will prepare for the next shot.  This time to take a second look will help ensure a more focused approach to winning.  The best golfers will take their time and take another look to help solidify their decision.